The purpose of participating in a psychic reading is to find assistance with changing your life for the better, which is why it is vital to have a good relationship with your guide.
A reading often requires vulnerability as you share intimate thoughts, beliefs or emotions. The psychic may also receive messages with sensitive information about personal topics like what to do about a painful you generally don’t talk about in public.
That doesn’t mean you need to open up heart and soul with a clairvoyant, but you should feel safe and comfortable discussing private matters them. Without that trust, it’s incredibly challenging to have a positive outcome for the reading. Imagine trying to have a serious conversation about meaningful issues in your life with someone you don’t get along with or who’s opinion you don’t value.
Trust, mutual respect and a clairvoyants ability to work effectively without judgement are major components of a successful reading. When searching for a guide, chose someone who is genuine, empathetic and who can be trusted to hold space for you.
There are a couple of things to consider; the first point is that the reason you aren’t ‘clicking’ is just a simple personality clash. If you are looking for someone to facilitate a tarot, astrology or are interested in working with a medium, be sure to do your due diligence and chat with the psychic before committing to a reading.
This can save you time down the track if it turns out the medium is not really that compatible with you. However, it is essential to note that just because the psychic’s character and/or methodology isn’t the right fit for you, does not mean they are bad at what they do.
There are many capable professional psychics who are great for some people to see and less so for others. It all comes down to your personal style and needs. As with anyone in life, there will always be people with whom you have an instant connection with those who you don’t. As they say, you can’t please everyone!
If you chat with a psychic who’s style doesn’t gel with your own it’s perfectly ok and no indication of ineptitude on the part of the guide. Don’t feel obligated to sit with a psychic you are not 100% comfortable with, there’s no need to force the connection. There are enough psychics out there doing wonderful work for you to easily find another.
The second reason you may have doubts about the reading or trouble connecting with psychic could be that your gut is telling you something is up. A clairvoyant must have the wisdom, sensitivity and skill set to provide an accurate reading.
You should have confidence in their ability, be relaxed in their presence and trust that they are holding a safe space for you to make inquiries into sensitive subjects and then receive honest answers. A true clairvoyant aims to reduce their client’s stress or anxiety by bringing light and divine knowledge to the situation.
People who find themselves having trouble ‘clicking’ with their psychic should take a moment to check in with their intuition and assess how they are feeling about the reading or initial meeting. If the psychic comes across as dominating, forceful or during the conversation you find your anxiety levels being elevated, then it’s very likely you are talking to a fraudulent clairvoyant.
A good reason a reading doesn’t seem to resonate is that it is being conducted by a person posing as a psychic. For this reason, it’s critical that you respond to gut reactions about the guide or the session itself. You might notice that something is ‘off’ about the person or they are trying to scare you into working with them by telling you that you have a curse or a hex.
Another popular trick is to push products such as amulets and talismans that will save you from the opposing forces at work in your life. Individuals such as these give you the feeling that they are telling you exactly what they think you want to hear, it all sounds a little bit too good to be true.
We are all energetic beings that can sense deception, even if it takes our minds a moment to catch up. If you’re reading is not uplifting, or you don’t feel right about it always trust your instincts.